The Lesser of Two Evils

My husband and I are currently facing a biiiiiiiiiiig decision, and I can't help but feel trapped.  There is no good, ideal choice.  There is a side of awesome to each choice, and also a side of absolute sucky.  How in the world can one make a decision based on which is less sucky?  About anything?  I mean, if you wanted to go out to dinner, and both of the choices were poo, wouldn't you stay home and eat left-overs??  I am just so nervous because after all the crazy shenanigans in our lives, we are at a great place in our relationship, with our family, with our whole life, and I am so worried that this is going to put everything back in a tailspin.

What to do, what to do......